5 most important things to remember in a Relationship.
You can't expect a relationship to
live forever but do nothing for it. Relationships don't just work on their own
somehow. Like a plant it had to be nourished if you want it to grow. But are
you confused what to do and what not to? How to make your relationship a dream
and not a nightmare?
Let me help you with that. I can't
choose your actions for you, obviously, but all I can do is give you a direction
for you to head on and have a healthy relationship.
There are a lot of things we can
talk about if it comes to save your relationship or if you want to have one. But
I am listing here 5 most important things to remember in a relationship.
1.
ALWAYS LISTEN
You and I both know half of the time
you just pretend to listen to her/ him. Let's just face the fact that even if
you are interested a lot in the person, though you are not really always in a
mood to listen what they are saying. Since you can't directly say that fact on
their face it is obvious that you find an easy way out and just pretend that
you listened.
The first key to a person's heart is
their own words.
You have to actually listen to
whatever boring or illogical conversation, according to you, you are in. I know
it doesn't make sense at the time but it means a lot to your partner when they know for
a fact that you pay attention. And it also makes them love you even more. Believe me,
it works!
2.
NO EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILS.
In the beginning, it might not seem
a big deal to you or your partner but as your relationship grows older and you
continue to do the same 'emotional drama' just to get your demands done, trust
me, it's going to get ugly soon enough. You might not notice but your partner will
start to build a disgusting attitude towards you.
A small piece of advice, is to make them
believe in your views and opinion. Let them know how you feel and what you need instead of blackmailing them for what you want.
3.
STOP PLAYING INSECURITY CARD.
It's okay to feel protective of
someone you love. But meaningless obsession over your partner is going to drive
you crazy. There is no guarantee he/she is going to stay with you for the rest
of your life. Even marriages have an option to break them, called divorce. They
can walk out on you tomorrow for all you know but also they might not be and
you are just ruining the precious bond over some may or may not be thing. So
there is no point obsessing about your relationship just to make sure your
partner will stay forever.
There is only one thing you can do,
love what you have right now. It's just enough for your relationship, and maybe
it will live a small forever of its own.
4.
DON'T BE TOO CLINGY.
It often happens that you expect way
too much from your partner. I mean they are human too right? They have their
own lives to live as well. They love you and want to give you every happiness
you deserve but it doesn't mean you have to poke them every five minutes.
Give them some space, let them live
a little without you hovering all the time.
5.
RESPECT THEIR CHOICES.
Whether it's intimacy or life
decisions you have to remember they have a choice. They always got a vote in
this. Don't just impose whatever is in your mind and expect them to be just
fine with it!
It doesn't mean you can't say what's
on your mind regarding relationship. You can always put your point of view
in front of your partner and then let them decide.
Their choice is all they got in this
relationship besides you! Remember that.
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1 comments
Rightly said.... Most of the relationships are ruined coz of all these point only. Very well written sis.. Keep going 😘😘
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