How much do we really know about men and their feelings?
Why do we never talk about what Men feel?
We live in a time where
most people acknowledge the fact, that the famous quote of "boys don't
cry" is a lie.
Don't you think it's
been high time to break the notion that ‘men don't have feelings or they feel
way too less than women’?
They sure are
complicated beings but nobody seems to care or pay enough attention to simplify
their complications. All women do is blame guys for cheating or
some other crappy stuff they do or did.
Some even use them as
per their requirements. (GROSS! I KNOW BUT TRUE.)
But How much do we
really know about men?
I know guys either don’t
talk about their feelings or talk way too less for it to be a real thing.
So let’s make it as
important as it should be.
They are being misjudged
so many times because they lack the ability to express their emotions.
Men's emotions are delicate if you ask me.
They deserve to be
understood with genuine compassion.
Guys won’t ask but they
do want the appreciation and emotional support from time to time.
And don’t think for a
second that they do not ask emotional support and care because they are too
proud to ask instead they do not want us to be worried for them.
Well long story
short, men don’t want others to get worried so they hide
all of it and pretend as best they could. I am not saying all men are the same.
I do agree that there
are some assholes in the world but again, they became like that because nobody
was there for them to understand them, so instead, they pretended and pretended
until it became their reality. Or maybe they are still waiting for
someone to understand them.
Who knows? That’s
exactly my point.
We don’t know because we
do not give them enough importance at the time.
Every guy you know may
that be your brother, friend, boyfriend, etc. stop blaming and accusing them
all the time and try to understand them for once.
Guys always do so many
things silently and never get the appreciation and credit for it.
Now ladies! I know, for
you, your world revolves around yourself but give yourself
a chance to understand them, care for them and support them. Especially in
their hardest times and they might just love you even more for it.
Maybe you might find a
whole new person behind those tough looks and silent eyes.
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5 comments
Its true.. keep doing
ReplyDeleteThose were some really nice words. Keep going!
ReplyDeleteThis is the reason of being single. Coz nowadays every girl treat all boys in one picture no matter weather they are like that or not
ReplyDeleteLike women, I find men are emotionally open, closed or somewhere in between. It's all about learning their language and building that trust! Great article - love the genuineness of it.
ReplyDeleteWe all need to be more honest about how we are feeling.
ReplyDeleteI totally know my Fiance now, I tend to know before he does that he is having a wobble. I recognise the signs and I know I need to give him time to decide for himself what is wrong and then we are very open in talking about things and finding solutions etc
Great post x